How We Help You Date Intentionally

& build meaningful relationships

The Right Strategy. The Right Guidance. The Right Support.

The Only Certified Professional Matchmaker in Knoxville
Exclusive, Hand Picked Matches
Discreet and Confidential
Boutique Personalized Service
Personalized Relationship Strategy Sessions
The Only Certified Science Based Dating Coach in Tennessee

Options Are Everywhere. Discernment Is Where We Lead.

FOR MEN

A discreet, concierge-level matchmaking service designed for accomplished men who value precision, privacy, and results.

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FOR WOMEN

A high-touch dating experience combining expert matchmaking, personal insight, and intentional introductions.

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Client Success Stories
Ella is a true professional! She is really hands on and cares about her clients:)
HeatherFort Lauderdale
Heather
Things are going awesome! We are a match made in heaven as far as I’m concerned! We are going on our 4th date tonight and text/talk daily.
WendyKnoxville
Wendy
This was a new little adventure for me. I was a bit uncertain when I approached the group, but the welcome and guidance were disarming and so warm. The instruction was clear and simple. I enjoyed getting to know people and the evening was quite a bit of fun! Well, Ron, and well done, friends. I’m looking forward to the next event.
AmyKnoxville
Amy
The Singles Party was a lot of fun, very laid back and no pressure. Perfect for someone who is back in the dating world.
RonKnoxville
Successful Women And Toxic Partners. Secure attachment style are better equipped to deal with a narcissist.
Top notch dating coach.
TimKnoxville
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I went to my first speed dating event, and it was a great experience!
AmyKnoxville
Amy
Where do I begin. I've been with my husband for over 7 years and if i was told that I would meet someone like him I would not believe them. I don't know how Ella knew that we were a perfect match, but I'm so grateful she introduced us. She truly has a talent for matchmaking and I can not thank her enough.
Natasha and DimaMiami 2019
Natasha and Dima
Finding love later in life isn’t easy—but with Ella and Smoky Matchmaker, it became possible. We’re so grateful to have found each other and couldn’t be happier.
Judyth and AnthonyFlorida
Judyth and Anthony
"We just got engaged! You did the best choice for us! You are the best! Thank you so much!"
Daryl and DianaKnoxville
Daryl and Diana

Frequently Asked Questions

How is your matchmaking service different from dating apps or online services?

Our service is entirely personalized and relationship-focused. We work with you one-on-one, take the time to truly understand your values and goals, and curate introductions intentionally—without algorithms, endless swiping, or guesswork.

Our clients are accomplished, intentional singles who value quality over quantity and are ready for a meaningful, long-term relationship. If you prefer discretion, structure, and expert guidance, this experience was designed for you.

The process begins with a private consultation, followed by a deep dive into your relationship preferences and lifestyle. From there, we thoughtfully curate introductions, provide feedback, and guide you through each step with ongoing support and insight.

Yes. Every introduction is carefully screened, interviewed, and selected based on alignment—not just availability. We prioritize compatibility, shared values, and relationship readiness.

Very little. This is a concierge service designed to save you time. We handle the searching, screening, and coordination so you can focus on showing up for quality connections.

Absolutely. Privacy and discretion are core to our process. Your information, participation, and matches are handled with the utmost professionalism and confidentiality.

Yes. We work with both men and women who are serious about finding the right partner and are willing to invest in a thoughtful, guided matchmaking experience.

That’s exactly what we’re here for. During your consultation, we’ll walk through your goals and recommend the option that best aligns with your needs, lifestyle, and relationship vision.

Simply apply or schedule a consultation. From there, we’ll determine next steps and ensure the experience feels aligned, intentional, and right for you.

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